Truths arise when you least expect them. You are always shocked, whether you are prepared for them or not. It's funny how the universe works, and how things always end up turning to your advantage.
No one is to be trusted. Some people are so talented at lying and cheating that it makes you sick to your stomach. They master the art of making you feel guilty, making you believe that you have issues. They are the victim and you are the perpetrator. What do you learn from such experiences and how do you deal with them? How do you recognize the bad apple?
They can do what a person who has feelings for you does; say nice things all the time, buy gifts, promise you the world, make you dream. You look straight into their eyes and are sure they would never hurt you. They can see you as often as you want, take you to the fanciest restaurants and pubs, share their passions and fears, open up to you.. They can cry in front of you, hold you so tight and tell you they never want to let you go. Well that's the concise art of cheating..
I have learned that love does not hurt. It doesn't make you insecure or anxious. It overwhelms you with peace and serenity. Love is not doubt or fear. It is not jealousy either. Some experiences are essential to your inner growth. And when life seems truly unfair, have a little faith. You went through what you went through for a reason. It may not seem apparent to you, but time will tell.